not a word we use a lot, but it should be part of our lives…
first off, what does it mean? the word koinonia is a greek word found in the new testament. it’s found a dozen times in the new testament, and refers to fellowship. not fellowship in the coffee-and-donuts way, though. koinonia takes fellowship to a completely new level.
i’ve recently been learning the power in koinonia fellowship. as a youth ministry, we’ve now started small groups on wednesday night as part of our time together. we gather together, sing a couple songs of worship, i introduce the study for the night and take us through the word, and then we break into smaller groups where we can make application to our lives and pray for each other. in just the few weeks we’ve been doing small groups, i’ve had students openly confessing things to others in the group, students praying for each other, and also following up with each other.
i’ve been meeting with a small group of guys at a coffee shop in redmond for years now. we gather together, study the word, make application to our lives, and pray for each other. this typically results in follow-up calls through the week to check in with each other, and accountability is developed.
so i still haven’t adequately defined what koinonia is. as i mentioned above, its not coffee and donuts. we throw the word “fellowship” around a lot at church. people talking as they’re going into service is “fellowship.” women chatting between services is “fellowship.” men saying hi as they pass in the parking lot is “fellowship.” is this right? it might be fellowship, but it’s definitely not koinonia fellowship. taken from thayer’s greek-english lexicon, koinonia is “fellowship, association, community, communion, joint participation, intercourse.” strong words to give definition to koinonia.
the early church was growing exponentially. at peter’s sermon, three thousand were converted. after the healing of the lame man, another five thousand were saved. yet we read in acts 2 that they were meeting from house to house. eight thousand in a house? i don’t think so. i have to believe the house to house meetings were much smaller and intimate. they still went to the temple to worship, but they gathered in houses for koinonia. these meetings take on many different names and identities. i’ve heard them called koinonia groups, home studies, house to house, home fellowships. the list is endless. and the name doesn’t really matter. what really matters is, are you in koinonia? do you have a person or group that you meet with during the week that knows your struggles, prays for you in good times and bad, and isn’t afraid to ask you the tough questions? is there someone you gather with that points you to the word, leads you to the cross, and directs you to Jesus?
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